Our oldest son finished the Harry Potter series last year. When he finished each book, we’d have a movie night for just the two of us. It was a fun process for both of us, and now his next-youngest brother is following suit.
All the boys — we have four — have been taking turns working their way through the story. Although each novel has hooked them, they haven’t been pulled into the overarching narrative of the series the way that I was. I am trying to be patient with that and not impose my book-reading goals on them. So far, it seems like they want to visit Hogwarts and then go somewhere else for a while.
My youngest son, aged nine, had not yet picked up the first book when his big brother finished number six. The night we watched the movie, the littler guy thought he would be crafty and sneak downstairs to catch a peek at the movie. He stayed hidden, and I never knew that he had done so.
I found out about his sneakiness when he began having terrible nightmares each night. He had seen a dreadful scene involving Dumbledore and the Drink of Despair. It’s a scene when even I hide my eyes at times. So it should come as no surprised that my poor little guy, having wandered into a scene for which he was ill-prepared, was marked by what he saw. Each time he closed his eyes at night, he saw it all over again.
We suffered through this together, he and I. We talked through scary things. We prayed. We remembered why Mom and Dad make those rules about who can and can’t watch certain things (it’s not to deprive you; it’s to protect you). But it was months of disrupted bedtimes before we got back to sleep every night.
Finally, one day he approached me with book one in his hand and asked if he could read it. I agreed. He eagerly followed up, “I think I’ll be OK if I know how the story ends. Part of why it’s scary is I don’t know what happens after that scene.” He was prepared to blaze his way through six books to put the demons in his mind to rest.
Stunned by his insight, I returned to cleaning the kitchen and wondered how my life would be different if I walked confidently in my knowledge of The Ending.
And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”
And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” Also he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”
(Revelation 21:3-5 ESV)
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Helena Sorensen says
Man, this is good. Thank you, Kelly.
Kelly Keller says
Always the encourager, Helena. Thanks.
B. Tyler Lowe says
This is fantastic. Thanks so much for the encouragement!
Kelly Keller says
Thank you!
Guest says
Wow. Excellent!
Kelly Keller says
Thanks!
James Witmer says
Chills. Seriously, reaching that ending, chills.
Kelly, thanks for pulling back the veil a little.
Kelly Keller says
Thanks James.
Cindy G says
I know there is a huge debate in the Christian world regarding Harry. I personally loved the books. While not written as an allegory, clearly good and evil are separated.
My husband has not read the books, and is in the camp that they are undesirable for our children because they glorify magic. However, he loves Narnia, LOTR, etc.
I just cannot wrap my mind around the distinction. LOTR was not written as an allegory, either. But we don’t have to stay away from that one. Is he just jaded by public opinion? Or am I missing something?
Kelly Keller says
Cindy, the link that Jennifer suggests below is a great conversation about all of it. I also really love this clip from Jerram Barrs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MxySk24J_bs
Kelly Keller says
Also, I guess I just want to say…if you need to honor your husband’s wishes and keep your kids from Hogwarts, Narnia and Middle-Earth are the best two of the three in my opinion. They are still gaining a treasure in reading those two, so be encouraged.
Jennifer Bast says
I love this. Have you seen the movie ‘Big Fish’? This post reminded me of the movie – how knowing the end affects the way you live.
Kelly Keller says
I’ve never seen that one! I will put in on our queue.
Jennifer Bast says
Cindy G, this is the best thing I’ve ever read on the debate: http://www.rabbitroom.com/2011/07/harry-potter-jesus-and-me/
Andy DeBruhl says
Thanks Kelly! This is pretty fantastic.
Kelly Keller says
Thanks Andy!
scott james says
So heartening, Kelly. Thank you.
Kelly Keller says
thanks Scott!
S.D. Smith says
Great, Kelly! Thank you.
Kelly Keller says
Thanks Sam.
Paul Boekell says
Listen. That was great. Thank you, as James said so accurately, for pulling back the veil a little!
Kelly Keller says
Thank you, Paul.
Jennifer Taylor says
So good!
Kelly Keller says
Thanks, Jennifer.
Loren Warnemuende says
Such good things here. It’s a great example of living Christ through all aspects of our lives–teachable moments for our kids that have a way of coming around and teaching US something!
Kelly Keller says
Agreed, Loren. Parenting is upside down that way.
M Parker says
Wow. I came to Story Warren from Amongst Lovely Things, and I am so inspired by everything I have read. Thank you for your words, and the beautiful thoughts shared here in general.
Kelly Keller says
Hi there! I am just now starting to explore Amongst Lovely Things myself! Welcome to Story Warren.
Peter B says
Thanks, Kelly. Beautiful reminders.